About Our Family

El Paso, Texas, United States
We are James, Lisa, Patrick, Christian, Carson, and Ella Payne a military family serving our country via service in the U.S. Army. Jim and I have been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful home grown sons -Patrick, Christian and Carson. We recently adopted our beautiful daughter Ella Grace Ana from Donets'k, Ukraine in September. Jim and I began our Army life together at Fort Bliss, El Paso, Texas and every assignment thus far has extended unique opportunities and challenges for our family to grow and learn; to become a stronger, committed, and a prepared Army family. Having recently lived abroad for six amazing years, we cannot express how thankful we are for the opportunity to have represented our great country and to discover the cultures and customs of other countries; to become close to the people and learn from them; to open our hearts and minds to the unfamiliar languages and way of life in other countries. Having now moved back to the United States, we are looking forward to discovering what new adventures await our family. Rest assured, wherever the Army sends us we will continue to serve you and our country proudly. Army life, we wouldn’t trade it!

August 27, 2008

Day 8....


We have been visiting with Ella for 8 days now. It is amazing to look back on the videos and pictures we took from day 1 and see the changes in her. We are truly thankful for this beautiful blessing.

Today, we did serious laundry and house cleaning - apparently, this apartment didn't come with maid service! After laundry and cleaning, I ironed - yeah, I know a bunch of first today; but Ella needed her blue dress and bunny back; she only has 2 dresses so we alternate between them. We brought several articles of clothing with us for her; but only 2 of the dresses we brought fit her...the others we donated to the orphanage. Her pink bunny was looking like it had been living in the woods. Yesterday, we managed to pry it away from her so we could wash it.
Ella seems to be understanding a bit more of what we say to her and we can tell her bond with us is getting stronger. She squeals with delight at the sight of us and drops whatever she is doing to come running. She listens when we tell her to come sit with us or not to go over there...but most heartbreaking is when she asks to leave in the car again today and we have to tell her not today. She loves to play hide-n-seek and for us to spin her around. She loves to have Papa chase her and to sit in Mama's lap and to have her hair fixed. She is afraid of heights, dogs, and cats. She cries when it is time to go back to her groupa.

Here are some more pictures from our visit today...



3 comments:

Stefanie and Bill said...

Sweet sweet pictures and video. You are blessed and so is she!
Wishing you a speedy court date!
Stefanie

Anonymous said...

I love the pictures. I'm glad that you are sharing them with us. Sounds if things are coming together for you all. I know it is hard being away from the boys and I'm proud of them for giving up some of their time to give to Ella. She will sure appreciate them when she realizes what you all have done to make such a big change in such a little girl's life. Hurry home. Sue

Kathy and Matt said...

The video of the 2 of you is so sweet!

Hoping all goes well at court!

This is our "spot" we began at the beginning of our journey in May 2007, to adopt a child from Ukraine. In August 2008, we traveled to Ukraine to bring our daughter/sister Ella Grace Ana home; and on September 12, 2008 we did just that.

While our journey to bring her home is complete, our journey together is just beginning. We will continue to keep our spot here, posting as frequently as we can; and keeping you updated on our next journey in life...maybe a second adoption is in our future.

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