About Our Family

El Paso, Texas, United States
We are James, Lisa, Patrick, Christian, Carson, and Ella Payne a military family serving our country via service in the U.S. Army. Jim and I have been married for 18 years and have 3 wonderful home grown sons -Patrick, Christian and Carson. We recently adopted our beautiful daughter Ella Grace Ana from Donets'k, Ukraine in September. Jim and I began our Army life together at Fort Bliss, El Paso, Texas and every assignment thus far has extended unique opportunities and challenges for our family to grow and learn; to become a stronger, committed, and a prepared Army family. Having recently lived abroad for six amazing years, we cannot express how thankful we are for the opportunity to have represented our great country and to discover the cultures and customs of other countries; to become close to the people and learn from them; to open our hearts and minds to the unfamiliar languages and way of life in other countries. Having now moved back to the United States, we are looking forward to discovering what new adventures await our family. Rest assured, wherever the Army sends us we will continue to serve you and our country proudly. Army life, we wouldn’t trade it!

October 5, 2008

One, Two, Three...

Time just manages to slip away no matter how hard you try to hold on to it; and no matter how you use it. It has been three short weeks since we brought Ella home and it is amazing how much she has changed already. She is so attached to her brothers and loves to spend hours outside on the saucer swing with them and they love taking her to the park to play. They have adjusted so well to having a little sister in the house - it is truly a blessing how well this new combination fits together. It's like she has always been here.

Some things we have learned about Ella over the past few weeks:

She has absolutely no interest in T.V. - None.
She loves her baby dolls, jewelry, dresses, and pink glitter slippers.
She loves to take a bath (although we have had to work on not drinking the bath water).
She is a great little Mama's helper.
She sucks her thumb when she goes to sleep.
She does not like bedtime and usually breaks down in tears when she knows it is time.
She will eat you out of house and home if you let her.
She likes to teach you Russian instead of her learning more English although she is progressing.
She is warming up to dogs but she is still not so sure about them.
She is great at playing possum (fake snoring LOUDLY while answering your question with a nod).

We have kept consistency with her as well as routine the last three weeks. She understands about 80-85% of what we say to her. For example, if I say Ella we don't need the lights. Can you turn them off please. She does. If we ask her to put her shoes in the closet she does. If we say it is your turn to pray she does - although we have no idea what she has said because it is in Russian except for the "Amen" at the end of her prayer.


Here are some pictures of our weekend at the Amigo Air Show.



How do you drive this?





The view from here is much better.



This is my kinda ride




We are family....all my brothers.....Papa and me....

3 comments:

Tami said...

What great pictures! Looks and sounds like she's doing great. Aren't these kids amazing. Their ability to adapt to their new environments never ceases to amaze me.

Anonymous said...

I am so excited for you guys! She is a very lucky little girl and you are too! She is amazing and I am glad that she is adjusting well. Tell everyone hello and we can't wait to see you. Your dad is so excited about his new granddaughter-he has talked about her a lot. I can tell that he can't wait to meet her. Take care and hope to see you soon.

Love,
Lori

Unknown said...

I love hearing how Ella is doing at home. :) so cute!

This is our "spot" we began at the beginning of our journey in May 2007, to adopt a child from Ukraine. In August 2008, we traveled to Ukraine to bring our daughter/sister Ella Grace Ana home; and on September 12, 2008 we did just that.

While our journey to bring her home is complete, our journey together is just beginning. We will continue to keep our spot here, posting as frequently as we can; and keeping you updated on our next journey in life...maybe a second adoption is in our future.

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